its all over

you know when things are over, but then they are not really over?

and then you wonder whats actually happening, and no one knows?

like when you break up with someone, and then they think you were maybe not serious about it?

well... ugh..

Andy and I broke up. Apparently he thought i was not serious, he still called, we still talked, and even went out for dinner. I thought he needed closure, he thought we were still together.

We have a post break up fight, and he calls me mean and "out to get him" like I was purposely trying to hurt him. I tell him we broke up. He says he made the wrong assumption that we are still together.

So now we are broken up, and finally both parties know. He still calls, he still emails.

He says
Call me on the weekend.
I say
I can't, people in town, busy, I'll call you next week. when I have more time.

He tells me i am stupid and weird for not being able to take 5 min to call him. I could have, but why rush it when I have all next week open and can call him and talk for as long as I like? instead of trying to squeeze it in. Am I mislead? or does this sound normal to you too?

anyways,
i don't call him

I have visitors, i have parties, i have brunches,

i get an email Monday morning.

Its over completely. This is why you have no friends,
I don't have time for someone who has no time for me.

Good bye.


OK what?

are you serious?

Are you really that bent out of shape because I said I would call you Monday, instead of on the weekend?

anyways.

I guess thats over.

ciao